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Realationship readiness quiz

This 5 minute, 10-question quiz will help you assess your readiness for a relationship by asking about 10 areas of your life.

To get started, please enter your name and e-mail address below. Please be assured that your privacy and anonymity will be respected. Only you will have access to your results, and we will not release your e-mail address to anyone outside of our organization.

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I know what I want: I have a clear vision for my life and relationship. I can envision my perfect life in rich detail that feels strong, very real, and keeps me motivated.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I know my requirements: I have a written list of at least ten non-negotiable requirements that I use for screening potential partners. I am clear that if any are missing, a relationship will not work for me.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I am happy and successful being single: I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends, and my own company. I am living the life that I want, and I am not seeking a relationship out of desperation and need.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I am ready and available for commitment: I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship. My schedule, commitments and lifestyle allow my availability to build a new relationship.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I am satisfied with my work/career: My work is fulfilling, supports my lifestyle, and does not interfere with my availability for a new relationship.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I am healthy in mind, body, and spirit: My physical, mental, or emotional health does not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want. I am reasonably happy and feel good.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

My financial and legal business is handled: I have no financial or legal issues that would interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

My family relationships are functional: My relationships with my children, ex, siblings, parents, and extended family do not interfere with having the life and relationship that I want.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I have effective dating skills: I initiate contact with people I want to meet, and disengage from people who are not a match for me. I keep my physical and emotional boundaries, and balance my heart with my head with potential partners.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.

I have effective relationship skills: I understand relationships, can maintain closeness and intimacy, communicate authentically and assertively, negotiate difference positively, allow myself to trust and be vulnerable, and can give and receive love without emotional barriers.
This area of my life is strong and would be an asset to my next relationship.
This area needs work, but most likely would not sabotage my next relationship.
This area could interfere with the success of my next relationship.