Speaker Series
Friday Speaker Series
July 18, 2003 (a past program)
Invitation to this program:
- “Dating: What's Intuition Got To Do With It?”
- With: Hollis Polk, MBA, Clairvoyant, Hypnotherapist, Master NLP Practitioner
- Do you wonder how you always seem to find the same sort of love interest?
- Do you wish you could figure out faster if a potential mate is right for you?
- Do you often ignore feelings about people because you can't quite put your finger on them?
- Do you tend to lose yourself in another person, or get caught up in his/her baggage?
If your answer to any of these questions is "yes", then join us for a fun, safe, interactive evening where you'll get to use your own intuition to size up a variety of different people - and check out what you "get"! You'll not only meet people in a new way, you'll also learn about how *your* intuition works.
About the presenter:
Hollis Polk is a personal coach, who uses her clairvoyance to help her clients look at their futures. If they don't like what they see, she uses her NLP and hypnotherapy skills to help them change that future to one they *love*. Contact Hollis Polk at 888-4-hollis (888-446-5547) P.O. Box 265 Mill Valley CA 94942
Review of this program:
Dating - What's intuition got to do with it?
A lot!
It can help you identify Mr. or Ms. Right. Perhaps more importantly, it can help you weed out all the Mr. Or Ms. Wrongs - which saves lots of time!
What is intuition? Webster's dictionary says it is "the immediate knowing or learning of something without the conscious use of reasoning; instantaneous apprehension". I think it is the use of all the information we've built up in a lifetime of experience, which we sort through so fast, we don't have to be conscious of it. You've probably had a "gut feeling" about something -- that's intuition. It can be trained, through practice, to give you more information that you've ever dreamed possible.
In order to use your intuition, it's useful to define its component parts (listed from the most common to the least common), one for each physical sense, plus the true sixth sense:
- Clairsentience - gut feelings, or other bodily feelings
- Clairvoyance - seeing pictures, usually internally, or energy fields or spirits with the physical eyes
- Clairaudience - hearing voices (usually in or around your head) with useful information
- Clairolfaction - smelling scents that are not there physically (e.g. it's common to smell absent flowers when the Virgin Mary is around)
- Clairgustation - tasting something that isn't there (e.g. a "tinny" taste in the mouth)
- Telepathy/channeling - knowing what someone else is thinking (it's telepathy if that someone is incarnate, channeling if that someone is discarnate)
When you practice, it's important to pay attention to your own reactions! They may be actual information about the person, or just reflections of your own patterns, but you won't know which unless you notice them and ask about them. Then it's really important to check out what you "get".
When you meet someone new, really look at the person:
- What is he/she wearing? Does it look appropriate for the event, for the person? What does it say about how he/she wants to present him/herself to the world?
- What is his/her posture like? Try getting into that person's physical position. What does that say about his/her attitude toward him/herself or the world?
- Now really look at the face. Left is who you really are... right is what you want the world to see. Do they look different? Which looks happier? What does the left side look like? What does the right side look like?
- Look at each feature... does this remind you of someone? We each have an encyclopedia of facial features in our minds... somewhere. Look at any small lines around the eyes or mouth, and know that those are caused by habitual muscle contractions. If you were tense in the way this person tenses, what would you feel?
- Now check inside for how you feel... is there any internal sensation, especially along your midline? What is that? What does that remind you of? An event? A person? Do any images come up? Does any internal dialog come up automatically?
- Listen to the other person talk. What do you hear in the person's timbre? Accent? Cadences or speed? A region? Does this person's voice remind you of anyone? Who? What is that person like?
- Also, for those of you with sensitive noses, perhaps you can smell the other person. What does that say to you about the person?
We all have these impressions, fleeting perhaps, but they're there. The more you pay attention to your impressions, and then check them out, the more accurate they'll get, and the more information you'll have with which to sort out Mr. or Ms. Right.